On-Line Dating?   Avoid Unpleasant Surprises Numerology Can Help Your Sort Through Your Offers And Make The Best Choice For Living Happily Ever After.

Now that Valentine’s Day is less than a month away, it is almost impossible to ignore the lure of boxes of candy, baskets of flowers, and romantic invitations for dinner-for-two. 

And if you’re alone and unattached, it’s also hard to ignore that nagging voice in your head...the one that sounds exactly like your mother...that insists you find a mate, get married, and live happily ever after. 

The pressure to “couple up” by February 14^th can drive you crazy. Which may explain why more and more seemingly sane and sensible men and women are plunking down good money to join on-line dating websites. 

Does it work?  Who knows?

But based on the number of “dates from hell” blogs and websites I’ve seen recently, getting “fixed up” by a computer is just as risky as getting “fixed up” by a friend. Either way, you need to be cautious.

If you, or someone you know, has taken the plunge into the murky waters of on-line dating, numerology is a great way to avoid the sharks and quick-sand that lurk beneath the cyber waves.  

Let’s Do The Math

The biggest problem with on line dating is that people are not always what they claim to be. Sometimes, it’s not even close. Any man or woman who claims to be a triple-decker hot-fudge sundae with nuts and whip cream can just as easily turn out to be just the nuts.

Before you agree to that first date, I suggest you do the math and find out what personal year he or she is in and if that is compatible with your own personal year.

Start with the birth information (month and day, and the then add a 5 for the 2012 Universal year, and then reduce it all to a single digit. 
(April 4, = 4 + 4 + 5 = 13 = 1+3 = 4 personal year.)

Once you know where the other person is coming from this year, what he or she is dealing with, turn-ons, turn-offs, you will have a better idea what to expect. Are they looking for a romantic fling or in it for the long haul.  Once you look at someone’s personal year, you will be in a better position to gauge your compatibility before you waste your time. 

For example, this might be the year when you need a casual relationship, when things are nice but not intense, and that suites you just fine. Getting involved with someone who is going through a needy or demanding phase will surely end in disaster for both of you. Best to know that in advance. 

I use the phase “Timing is Everything” and that is so true, what is perfect today may have bumps tomorrow or visa verse, so work with what you have in your chart or what they have in theirs. Relationships are hard, and if you’re not up to the task, then wait for the next one to come along.  And don’t forget, what you don’t want is just as important as what you do want.

And please remember, the personal year is just part of the story. The whole story requires looking at several factors, including name, destiny numbers, and other factors.   If you're interested in finding out more about you and "that certain someone", make an appointment and we'll talk.

Romance and the Personal Year

A partner in a 1 personal year may be a bit self-occupied. The one is a time for new beginnings, starting over, and he or she may be more interested in their career or their own life, and not have time to consider anyone else. A 1 may have just ended a negative relationship last year and is not anxious to tie on another noose, or anything that feels like a noose.

 A partner in a 2 personal year is looking for partnership, companionship, new friends and relationships. He or she wants to be with someone special.  Last year felt a bit isolated and lonely and they are ready to break out.

 A partner in a 3 personal year is someone who is social and wanting to have fun. While he or she is looking to flex their creative muscle, they tend to be scattered or talk too much and could tend to gossip some, not a good idea if you don’t want to hear of past loves.

 A partner in a 4 personal year is a workaholic. Very grounded, but stubborn, it is all about money or the lack of it. Detailed, a 4 won’t miss much, and you must be cautious to keep your word, and watch what you say to keep from coming across as harsh or negative.

 A partner in a 5 personal year loves freedom. He or she is a risk taker, sensual, changes rapidly, and likes things to go at full speed. You’ll never bee bored with in this relationship this year. 

 A partner in a 6 personal year tends to be a perfectionist, It is important to him or her that people keep their word. A 6 wants a comfortable home and to spend time with family and friends. Looking for a lasting relationship.

A partner in a 7 personal year will slant to the spiritual side, and has much to do, teaching and learning. A 7 keeps much to hidden and you may find yourself having to pull out information about who or what they want and like.  You can be  low key with them.

 A partner in an 8 personal year likes to be in control, to come across that he or she can handle anything.  An 8 wants to be seen as successful, and may spend more money then usual to show that they have value. Prestige is important.

 A partner in a 9 personal year has a lot of empathy for others. He or she goes about things quietly, being f assistance to others without making a big splash about it.  A 9 can be sensitive and rather dramatic this year, after all it is the year of the actor or actress. This is a year of endings, so you should be warned that this relationship isn’t for the long haul. Enjoy it while you can.